Wednesday, January 28, 2009

Your Sifu Samgoss not Zhugeliang but 伪君子岳不群 Hahahaha!

像岳不群这样的虚伪之人,却要处处装出一副高高在上的正人君子的模样,他们的内心世界和外在表现有着巨大的反差,甚至尖锐矛盾对立。他们是怎样调和这样尖锐的矛盾,适应内心和外在的双重生活呢?这就是心理防御机制在起作用。

  ▲ 了解心理防御机制

  心理防御机制是自我调和与本我、超我之间关系,适应复杂的外界环境,保持心理平衡的手段。当以上因素超出了自我的适应能力,引发强烈的焦虑和罪恶感时,将会无意识地激活一系列的防御机制来保护自我,缓解或消除不安和痛苦。

  ▲ 常见的心理防御机制有如下几种

  △否认,对痛苦的现实无意识地加以否定

  △压抑,将意识不能接受的观念、情感或冲动抑制到无意识中去

  △合理化,通过似乎有理的解释或理由为其难以接受的行为、情感辩护

  △升华,将社会所不能接受的性欲或攻击性冲动的能量转向更高级的、社会能接受的目标或渠道,进行创造性的活动。

  当然,还有诸如投射、移植、抵消、幽默、认同、反向形成等多种防御机制都在起作用。

  ▲ 从心理防御机制 看岳不群的伪装

  △投射作用:岳不群为了掩饰自己的真实目的,保持伪君子的形象,不断在外界寻找大奸大邪的讨伐对象,先是东方不败,后是任我行。就是把自己不能接受或欲加掩饰的欲望、感觉和想法投射到别人身上,以避免自己难受,或被别人发现。

  △反向形成:又称“矫枉过正”:为了克制自己和社会所不能容忍和接受的冲动和欲望,干脆走到极端的反面。于是,岳不群就有了一副行为端庄、德行高尚的谦谦君子嘴脸。

  △合理化:面对为达到个人目的,而给令狐冲带来的苦难和不幸,岳不群一句“江湖上腥风血雨,为何吹打得了别人,吹打不了他”而将自己的责任一笔带过。

防御机制并不是病态,相反,它们在维持正常心理健康状态上起着重要的作用。但正常防御功能作用的改变也会引起心理病理状态,如造就了伪君子岳不群。

3 comments:

  1. Come on! Can't you do better than making it personal? Lesson 101, talk on the subject itself. We debate on the subject for betterment.

    TA has its purpose and FA has its advantage. If you can't do well in TA, doesn't mean it's useless. Sam did quite well in FA. I can't see how this Seng or some of you be qualified as a TA pro.

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  2. Super Sorhai, thanks for the response, hahahaha.
    What makes you think that anti Samgoss is equivalent to anti FA? Simple logic you also can not comprehend? Your response to me as if I was TA supporters? You know what, this just shows how bias the state of your sorhai mind is. In case your bias mind blocks you from reading my statements to you, read again
    "FA? = Buy Cheap? Dead wrong! For instance, when Buffett bought Coca-Cola, it was not cheap. I don't want to give you free lessons. You do some homeworks please. And, don't simply mention Buffett here and there please, not working for Malaysia one. Understand? Sorhai! You are just another tips follower.: Whoa! Jagan marah ah >o< hahahahaha

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  3. oppps,let me add. Super Sorhai, I like what you wrote "Can't you do better than making it personal? " you may be sober on this... and maybe not, aren't your sifu samgoss is the King of Making It Personal? hahahaha... very ironic, I like it, Sorhai minds don't have logic.

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